You know, we often say, 'Oh, don't put me on a pedestal, I'm no role model.' And honestly, those are valid points. You don't ask to be anyone's hero, and that's fair. But what if, just if, you inadvertently became a standard for someone? Wouldn't be all that bad, right?
Thing is, intentional or not, you're being watched! Yeah, you, with your quirks and your deeds shaping the actions of others. It's not just the social media influencers; even those leading 'normal' lives are under observation. Your friends, nieces, nephews, kids—they're picking up cues from you, hoping to learn a thing or two.
You might say, 'I don't aim to influence anyone.' But truth is, humans are wired to seek out leaders, role-models, it doesn’t matter whether the chosen ones accept to be such or not. So, miss me with all that 'I'm not a role model' talk. You are. Deal with it.
Fact is, whether you're influencing a crowd or just a handful, whether it's big things or little gestures, people are looking up to you. My friends see me as a mentor on some things, and my kids mimic half of what I do. So, I make it a point to be the best me, to set the right example. And you know what? It keeps me in check too.
Just a friendly reminder today: You are being watched! Embrace it, own it, and make that influence count.
Be mindful of the impact you have. Whether it's in your daily actions or your big accomplishments, inspire positively.
Lead by example, because someone out there is watching you. Make it worth their while!
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